Unexpected change of plans, so I'm posting this a little earlier than I planned.
Jeremy Weaver has written a series of posts about what Calvinism is not.
Can Man Do Good?
What is Fatalism?
The Atonement Is For Everyone!
Everyone Limits The Atonement (Followup to the previous post)
One More Atonement Post... (Second atonement followup post)
Has Anyone Believed Against Their Will?
Eternal Security is a Half Truth, Part one & Part two